Should Hobbyists Comply With Escort Screening Requests?

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Should Hobbyists Comply with Escort Screening Requests?

Over the last decade, escorts, adult entertainers and fit naked girls have become more demanding with regards to screening potential clients, asking for increasing amounts of information in order to book a session. Some of these ladies are now demanding job info, social media profiles and even ID before agreeing to meet with clients. But is providing such information really a good idea?

Providing Too Much Info Makes You Vulnerable

Discretion has always been a fundamental part of the adult entertainment business. Traditionally, hobbyists rarely gave out their names, which is where the expression “John” or “John Doe” came from. The same was true of working girls, with the idea being that the less a lady and her John knew about each other, the better.

When you consider the fact that many hobbyists are married with successful careers and that the escort business has always been frowned upon by mainstream society, providing excessive info to a provider is extremely risky. It leaves the client open to possible blackmail and extortion. Once an escort knows a lot about you, who is to say she won’t use it against you in the future? Are you willing to risk your career and marriage?

I also feel that many of the ladies that demand excessive info before meeting their clients are hypocrites, as most of them would never give out their own real name or ID for you. These arrogant women demand from others what they themselves would never provide, and they get away with it because a lot of men these days are simps, suckers and fools.

Some of These Ladies Might Be Working with Intelligence Agencies

There has long been a close relationship between working girls and intelligence agencies such as the CIA. Escorts are well suited to being informants because they routinely come into close contact with rich and powerful men. They can then gather valuable information which can be passed along to intelligence officers in exchange for profit. In fact, declassified government documents now confirm that the CIA used hookers to spike the drinks of their clients with LSD during MKULTRA experiments back in the 1960s.

This is one of the many reasons why I recommend hobbyists NOT giving any information to escorts that can later be used against them. There is no reason for her to know where you work, or to see your government issued ID or social media profile. There are other ways she can verify you without asking for such information. In fact, I do not trust providers that ask for excessive information, and one thing you can do is request for them to provide you the same info in return and see how they react. If they catch an attitude or become agitated, this yet another sign that they are not trustworthy. It goes without saying that escorts need to protect themselves from violent and abusive clients, but hobbyists must also protect themselves against scammers and predatory ladies.

What About Advance Deposits?

A lot of adult entertainers these days are also asking for advance deposits before meeting with clients, which are usually non-refundable. While this is usually done to weed out timewasters, it also makes hobbyists susceptible to scams, and with technology such as AI creating fake profiles has become easier than ever before.
My personal stance on advance deposits is that hobbyists should not pay UNLESS a lady has been extensively reviewed on established websites such as TER by multiple long term members.

There is absolutely no reason for a working girl who is new to the hobby to be demanding advance deposits, because she hasn’t yet established herself. If a girl has 15 reviews on TER with a 4- or 5-star rating from established members, this is a good sign that she is legit, and you can send a deposit. Otherwise, forget it. You either pay her in person, after the session is complete, or refuse to meet with her.

On a final note, I also avoid seeing girls that are quick to list all the things they don’t do in their profile. What these dumb, arrogant providers do not understand is that men are not hiring them for what they don’t do, we are hiring them for what they are willing to do. Seeing a profile with “no this and no that” is an immediate turn off for me. There are plenty of ladies out there who are willing to do just about anything for the right price, so why waste time with girls that are quick to advertise all the things they “won’t” do? Trying to go to your job and tell your boss what you won’t do and see where that gets you. In my opinion, these ladies shouldn’t even be in this business, and hobbyists should just ignore them until they fade away due to a lack of clientele. An escort that is quick to tell you all the things she won’t do while not telling you what she will do is a lady that will most likely provide lousy service. Smart hobbyists want to pay ladies that will, not ladies that won’t!